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Real estate in divorce

When couples divorce and own property together, the big question arises: What happens to it now? The answer is not always straightforward and depends on many factors. Does the couple have children, does one partner want to continue living in the property, and what share of the property does each partner own?

Parting is painful – but it doesn't have to be!

Are you familiar with the following problems?

  • Do you want to sell your shared property immediately as a kind of liberation?
  • Do you want to keep your home for your children?
  • Is your property becoming unaffordable due to the costs of a second household?
  • One partner has to pay the other out. One leaves, the other stays.

When people separate or even divorce, the question often arises of what to do with the joint property. There are many options, but which ones are right for your situation? It is worth consulting a real estate specialist, as a neutral outsider can present all the possibilities without being biased by strong emotions. Some real estate agents have even trained as mediators for this purpose.

We outline the most important aspects here:

1. Selling a house during separation

A divorce can only be legally finalized after a full year of separation. The couple must therefore have lived apart for one year before they can file for divorce. However, the property can be sold during this phase if the couple is convinced that reconciliation or a desire to live together again is futile. This helps to prevent disputes during the divorce proceedings. However, the relationship is often already so broken that other options are more likely.

2. Sale of house after the end of the separation year

After a year of separation, one of the spouses can demand the sale of the joint property. If the other spouse cannot be persuaded, they can even be sued in court for consent. This step can be avoided if you instead consult a real estate expert who is trained as a mediator. They can help you weigh up the interests of both parties.

3. Sell real estate

Selling the property has the advantage that both spouses would receive the proceeds from the sale equally. This would allow them to pay off bank debts. The money could also be used to make a fresh start by investing in a new, smaller apartment. The disadvantage, however, is that a sale cannot be reversed and, in the event of a reconciliation between the spouses, the property is already "lost" and has new owners.

4. Rent out property

Renting out your own home has the advantage that the property remains in the family and can later be passed on to your children. In addition, the rental income can be used to service the bank loan. If you do eventually reconcile, the property is still there and you can move back in.

5. Partition auction

If the intention to sell is there but no agreement can be reached on the price, a partition auction can be held.

A partition auction is part of a foreclosure auction and can be requested independently by one of the partners at the local court. In principle, every co-owner is entitled to file a request, regardless of the size of their share. However, the risk with a partition auction is that the proceeds may be far below the market value of the property. This is a major financial disadvantage for both parties, as there are many bargain hunters just waiting for such properties to be sold. In addition, the costs of the expert opinion must be borne by the parties. These range between $1,000 and $2,500.

6. Real estate agent — are they biased?

When it comes to hiring a real estate specialist, the question arises: Who will take care of it? And how do I know that the agent, for example, hired by my spouse, is not biased? Well, in the event of a divorce, mutual trust is often no longer there. So what is the best way to proceed? It is possible to hire two different real estate agents to work for you. However, this would mean that the commission would have to be halved. This is not a good incentive for the real estate experts, which will also be reflected in their work and prolong the sale. We therefore recommend that you agree on a real estate agent that you both feel comfortable with. Also make sure that the expert has mediation skills. They can weigh up the interests of both parties so that everyone is satisfied with the sale. If you still have concerns about choosing a real estate agent, you can seek legal advice from a lawyer.

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Are you looking to sell your divorce property and unsure which option is right for your individual situation? With our comprehensive expertise, we can support you with all your questions, the potential sale, and your personal new beginning.

And in practice?

To provide an overview of all the options, let's assume, for the sake of simplicity, a divorce case in which the couple bought the house together and it belongs to both of them in equal shares. Let's call this couple Mr. and Mrs. Meier. The two did not sign a prenuptial agreement and, like most couples, did not expect to divorce. They also have two children who will live with Mrs. Meier after the separation. But where? That is the question.

Ms. Meier will continue to live in the property with the children. The property will remain jointly owned by both parties.

The two agree on whether Mrs. Meier has to pay rent to Mr. Meier, whether she can continue to live in the house without making any further payments, or whether the rent payments can be offset against the mortgage costs for the house or the maintenance costs. To ensure that neither partner is disadvantaged, it is advisable to seek legal assistance in this matter.

Mrs. Meier stays in the property with the children and pays Mr. Meier.

If Mrs. Meier wants to continue living in the house with her children, she can alternatively pay off her estranged husband in the divorce settlement. To do this, the value of the property is offset against the remaining debt, i.e., the mortgages and loans that still have to be paid off. In the Meiers' case, the house is worth $300,000, they bought it 10 years ago, and still have $200,000 to pay off. This $200,000 would be paid by Mrs. Meier alone in the future. Since €100,000 of the house has already been paid off, she must also pay Mr. Meier €50,000. This option is only practical if the partner remaining in the house can afford to repay the loan on their own.

The house is transferred to the children as a preliminary inheritance or gift. Mrs. Meier will continue to live there with the children until further notice.

If Mrs. Meier continues to live in the house, there is another option for clarifying the ownership situation: The property can be transferred to the couple's children, either as a preliminary inheritance or as a gift, with Mrs. Meier continuing to live in the property for the time being. As the children's guardian, she can dispose of the house until they reach the age of 18. However, this alternative is more suitable for families with only one child. This is because disputes could arise later between siblings.

Mr. and Mrs. Meier divide the house into two apartments, each of which they keep.

Splitting an apartment is an attractive option if both partners still get along well and can imagine living close to each other. However, this cannot be done without permission from the local authorities. It must also be entered in the land register.

Mr. and Mrs. Meier keep the house and rent it out. The rental income is split.

If both partners want to move out of the house, there is also the option of renting out the house and sharing the income. This option is interesting, for example, if one of the children wants to live in the house later on.

Mr. and Mrs. Meier are selling the house together and will split the proceeds.

In addition to the option of one partner remaining in the property and paying out the other partner, selling is one of the most popular options in divorce. Both parties receive half of the proceeds. It is important that the couple seek expert advice and have the property valued before selling. After all, the proceeds from the sale should form the basis for a new start for both parties.

Mr. and Mrs. Meier cannot agree and a partition sale is held.

When couples cannot agree, the only option left is often a partition sale. This must be applied for by one of the partners at the local court. However, compared to a sale, this usually results in a lower proceeds. Fortunately, the Meiers are able to reach an agreement without going to court and decide to sell the house together.

Your options

Sell, rent, transfer, or share? Each option has advantages and disadvantages that need to be considered in advance.

Sell

+ You have the financial flexibility to start afresh with a property tailored to your needs

+ You are released from all further obligations

+ You don't have to worry about expensive and time-consuming renovation work

– All of this comes with a considerable financial outlay

Rent

+ The house remains the family's asset

+ You may benefit from future increases in value

– You remain responsible for the condition of the property and your obligations to your tenant. In addition, there are changing tenancies, which involve a great deal of effort

Transfer

+ You and your family get to keep the house

– You must agree on who is allowed to live in the property and under what conditions

Division

+ Clear conditions

– Legal action may be necessary in the event of disagreement

– Time and cost expenditure should not be underestimated

We're going our separate ways – what should we do with the property?

Not only does a divorce take its toll on both parties, but there is also the question of what will happen to the shared property. And even if both parties can reach a satisfactory agreement, there is at least one move to organize. In most cases, however, couples decide to sell the property or rent it out to third parties. Then there is a lot to do: placing advertisements, organizing viewings, negotiating contracts, and so on—all on top of the emotional strain. As real estate experts, we are happy to support you in every phase so that you can take care of the important things.

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That depends on the individual case. Certain properties (e.g. vacation homes) are in higher demand at certain times and are therefore easier to sell.

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Can you save me from foreclosure?

It depends on the initial situation. Many foreclosures can be avoided and even stopped. As real estate professionals, we know how to quickly identify the right solutions.

Regardless of who owns the property in the future, e.g., through sale or transfer to family members, I can continue to live in the property for the rest of my life.

What are the benefits of lifelong right of residence?

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Anyone who wants to sell discreetly has good reasons for doing so and needs a proven strategy. Telling everyone about it does not always enhance the attractiveness of the property.

Unspoken expectations make selling to friends more challenging than selling to strangers: the friendship bonus alone can quickly involve a lot of money. Dealing with problems that may arise after a sale can also quickly put a friendship to the test. TIP: A professional real estate agent can use their experience to help ensure a smooth sale to friends and acquaintances.

Which is better: selling to friends or strangers?

Which is better: online valuation tools or a local real estate agent?

Online valuation tools provide good guidelines for a property. A professional local real estate agent also knows the local characteristics that influence value. If you want accuracy, go to a professional local real estate agent.

The demand for real estate and real estate prices have not fallen during the coronavirus pandemic. To protect the health of everyone involved, special procedures are required when selling property during the coronavirus pandemic.

What is better: wait until the coronavirus pandemic is over or sell immediately?

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